C: Colobomas- black spots on the eyes or clefts, vision issues and loss
H: Heart Defeat- Can be any type (Sophia has a bicuspid aortic valve), but many are complex, such as tetralogy of Fallot.
A: Atersia- The choanae are the passages that go from the back of the nose to the throat. They can be narrow (stenosis) or blocked (atresia).
R: Retardation of Growth- Growth hormone deficiency, short stature
G: Genital- kidney and urinary abnormalities, hydronophrosis and kidney reflux
E- Ears- Malformed cochlea defect; small or absent semicircular canals: CAUSE HEARING LOSS AND BALANCE PROBLEMS
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S: Special- unique onto the world, a gift
O: Optimism- the courage to see the good and strive for more
O: Optimism- the courage to see the good and strive for more
P: Perfectly Proud- a shield of honor and pride, Proud to be ME
H: Healing Hearts and Hope- A Heart that gives and grows; Healing the mind, body and soul. Giver of Hope
I: Innocently Incredible- Words cannot describe the humble beauty that is YOU
A: Amazing- simply amazing
I often do not mentally associate Sophia with having CHARGE Syndrome. I am consciously aware that she has CHARGE and that CHARGE is the root cause of all of her health issues and growth delays. However, when I look at that baby girl, I simply see Sophia. A beautiful, one year old girl that possess the capability to change the world, defy the odds. A girl to love and grow and to grow in love. I hope the world will not look at her as a label but as the amazing girl she is today and will continue to become. I think the best thing I can do for her as her mother is to look beyond the label. To treat her like a "normal" child, not looking at CHARGE as a problem but as a part of her.
A: Amazing- simply amazing
I often do not mentally associate Sophia with having CHARGE Syndrome. I am consciously aware that she has CHARGE and that CHARGE is the root cause of all of her health issues and growth delays. However, when I look at that baby girl, I simply see Sophia. A beautiful, one year old girl that possess the capability to change the world, defy the odds. A girl to love and grow and to grow in love. I hope the world will not look at her as a label but as the amazing girl she is today and will continue to become. I think the best thing I can do for her as her mother is to look beyond the label. To treat her like a "normal" child, not looking at CHARGE as a problem but as a part of her.
Amanda,
ReplyDeleteThis is beautifully written. You are wise beyond your years.
It has been a joy to watch you grow into the best mom that Sophia could have ever been given. It is true, God NEVER makes mistakes. You have always been meant to be Sophia's mom.
I know all days are not happy or easy, but you have the ability to see beyond those times, and can clearly envision all that is yet to be for her and your family.
God bless you, John and Sophia. You are all changing the world around you day by day by day.
Thank you again for allowing us to share that world with you in bits and pieces.
Love,
Shelley